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7 Things to Remember When You Deal With “Not Good Enough” Part 2

Posted by on Mar 13, 2017 in Sliders, Time Line Therapy® | 0 comments

7 Things to Remember When You Deal With “Not Good Enough” Part 2

In part one of this article I mentioned how “I am not good enough” reaches most people – of course at different degrees of intensity. The process is as follows: all is good and the suddenly something happens. You make a mistake or don’t react as you think you should have. You were stunned maybe shocked and taken by surprise. You had no strategies to deal with the situation in the moment. You did not know how to react. As a result you don’t feel good enough. Strong enough. Worthy enough. This “I am not good enough” issue...

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5 Emotions That Don’t Serve You And What To Do About Them Part 1

Posted by on Mar 13, 2017 in Sliders, Time Line Therapy® | 0 comments

5 Emotions That Don’t Serve You And What To Do About Them Part 1

In many articles we mentioned how negative emotions could be harmful. Certainly they don’t make you feel good and have detrimental effects on your mind and body. Now I will say something that on the surface seems to contradict that idea. Negative emotions are good. Yes, they are good because they show us when something is not working well in our lives. They show us when something is wrong. Otherwise we would put up with situations and other people’s behaviors which are otherwise not acceptable. Simply put it, without the presence of...

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7 Things to Remember When You Deal With “Not Good Enough” Part 1

Posted by on Mar 6, 2017 in Sliders, Time Line Therapy® | 0 comments

7 Things to Remember When You Deal With “Not Good Enough” Part 1

Most people deal with it. “I am not good enough”. It comes in fast and in an deceptive way even for the most self-confident person on earth. Something happens. It takes you by surprise. You make a mistake or don’t react as you think you should have. You were stunned. You had no strategies to deal with the situation in the moment. You did not know how to react. As a result you don’t feel good enough. Strong enough. Worthy enough. This “I am not good enough” issue can take many different forms of expression. Many different...

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Have You Noticed Yet? The World is Getting Dumb

Posted by on Mar 6, 2017 in NLP Coaching, Sliders | 1 comment

Have You Noticed Yet? The World is Getting Dumb

I saw the other day a short YouTube video. I laughed with tears and then I thought about it and I did not know if to laugh or to cry. It says: “Did you ever notice how many stupid people surround you? If you didn’t then you might be one of them in which case you can turn off this video and carry on with your life. It’s no secret that morons and idiots are the majority of the world’s population.” How did we get here? Many people want to grab a structure that’s offered to them, good or bad, getting results or not, and pull it around...

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Reason, Creativity, and Magic – Can NLP Help? Part 2

Posted by on Feb 27, 2017 in Featured Post, NLP Coaching | 1 comment

Reason, Creativity, and Magic – Can NLP Help? Part 2

We have had lots of questions during our free NLP VidChats about critical thinking.  In Part 1 of this article I addressed this issue from different angles and shared with you different aspects of how it works. It seems that this theme is not going to rest easily even so. So here is the rest of the article. These people come to resemble solid matter. They take on the character of matter. For these people imagination is at least a misdemeanor, if not a felony. They will argue that it is only in your head, that it is stupid, and ultimately that...

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What’s Wrong With The Unconscious Mind?

Posted by on Feb 27, 2017 in Featured Post, NLP Coaching | 0 comments

What’s Wrong With The Unconscious Mind?

Nothing is wrong with the Unconscious Mind, except for the people who lead unconscious lives. That’s me making fun. I think…. In the modern day and age, with the onset of the “New Age” of love and light, meditation, and more meditation, and more meditation, has been elevated to the rank of sainthood. Now, the point of meditation seems to be to dissolve consciously into the void, to get to a point from where you can watch your own mind, your own thoughts, and finally, without effort, observe that you are not your body, thoughts,...

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Reason, Creativity, and Magic – Can NLP Help? Part 1

Posted by on Feb 20, 2017 in Featured Post, NLP Coaching | 2 comments

Reason, Creativity, and Magic – Can NLP Help? Part 1

We have had lots of questions during our free NLP VidChats about critical thinking.  It seems that this theme is not going to rest easily. It fascinates people. It makes them curious. Why is critical thinking compulsory for success in life and how do you get to have it? How do you know you have it? You will remember past articles in which we addressed issues like “question everything” as a defining mark of a critical thinker as well as many others. Today I would like to address another aspect of it. In order to function in this...

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Can NLP Be Used For Manipulation? Part 2

Posted by on Feb 20, 2017 in Featured Post, NLP Coaching | 0 comments

Can NLP Be Used For Manipulation? Part 2

To answer this question, in Part 1 of this article we answered the question: where does NLP come from? Since from time to time we read articles inferring that NLP is used against us as a tool of mind manipulation. Now we get to the iffy question. Can NLP be used for manipulation? Of course! As a set of techniques it can be used for anything, good or bad. But so can a hammer. “Do this or I bong you with a hammer!” So are sales techniques. So are many other techniques in other fields of human endeavor like public relations, advertising,...

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Fear Can Keep You Docile and Under Control

Posted by on Feb 13, 2017 in Featured Post, Time Line Therapy® | 1 comment

Fear Can Keep You Docile and Under Control

If you never understood why Time Line Therapy® is vitally important for your wellbeing and safety – here it is folks. You have heard this before: fear is your greatest enemy. It’s almost a cliché, and yet, almost everybody I know succumbs to fear from time to time. Wrongly there is a popular belief that fear is useful because it keeps you safe. We disagree. Fear is a secondary response. What keeps you safe is the instinctual response of fight or flight. This is a response that kicks in from the oldest part of your brain called the...

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Can NLP Be Used For Manipulation? Part 1

Posted by on Feb 13, 2017 in Featured Post, NLP Coaching | 0 comments

Can NLP Be Used For Manipulation? Part 1

  From time to time we read articles on different websites that talk about NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) as being used against us, the viewers, readers – in other words the public. The discussion ranges from the language patterns taught in NLP to anchoring and other techniques all being employed for mind manipulation. First of all, in order to answer that question we need to understand what is NLP and where is comes from. Let’s make something clear: there is nothing in NLP that comes from NLP. Despite NLP being a relatively new...

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